Here's another song from my Psychic Jukebox, one that's popped up several times for me in the last twenty-four hours.
I like Bryan Adams, and I like this song. But I think it's a good example of why so many have a tough time finding love. Unrealistic expectations.
The thought that someone might say to you that "everything I do, I do it for you" is sweet, but it's not very likely. And the truth is, you don't really want that, even though you think you do.
We all need balance. And from time to time, we need to do things for ourselves.Taking care of yourself isn't selfish, though popular culture often makes us feel that way.
And would you really want someone who only does things for you? Every single thing that they do?
At first, that might seem romantic. You would probably enjoy it. But would you be able to reciprocate? And if you couldn't, odds are pretty good that you would feel guilty. And you might even begin to feel angry, feeling like you're in a relationship where you can't possibly measure up.
Love isn't a pop song, and it isn't a movie or a novel. Sure, there should be instances of doing things for the one you love. And some of those things will be things you don't like. And you should expect that same from them.
Just don't lose yourself. It's important that you take care of you. And sometimes that means doing something that is for you and only for you.
Sometimes you won't agree, and that's fine. Sometimes those disagreements will be silly and insignificant, and sometimes they'll be big and important. And you and the one you love will have to find middle ground.
But expecting them to always cater to you is a recipe for failure. And you deserve better than that!
I've posted Bryan's original video for this song below. I often find listening to the music helps clarify the messages.
Spirits and Angels love music, and love to give us messages through music. This song comes from my Psychic Jukebox, which has over nineteen thousand songs in it. I set it to play randomly, and asked my guides and angels to give me the song that was the message that was needed.
I also use my Psychic Jukebox in the readings on Psychic Tapestry's Love Show, heard on Blog Talk Radio every Friday at 5:00pm (Pacific) and in my readings at Myztic Isle on Mondays (12:00pm to 5:00pm)! You can get directions or make an appointment by visiting Myztic Isle's website RIGHT HERE!