Don't Wants and Do Wants

Today's card is something we talk about on Psychic Tapestry's Love Show often.

On the front of the card, it says, "I can stop attracting Don't-Wants by attention to Do-Wants."

And it really can be that simple. 

I often say (though I didn't originate the idea) that worrying is like praying for something you don't want. The message of this card is similar. By focusing on what you don't want, you put that energy out into the Universe, instead of putting your energy into what you do want. The Universe likes to give you what you spend your energy on, which can continue to give you what you don't want, instead of what you do.

That can become a never-ending cycle, as what you don't want continues to pile up, making you feel like you can't focus on anything else.

I know this is easier said than done. The good news for you is that it doesn't have to happen all at once. Spend some time being grateful for what you have, and spend some time envisioning what you do want - whether that's a relationship, a job, or something else. And as you can, spend more time on that. Make a plan for how your life will be when you have what you want. 

This isn't to say you should simply lay on the couch thinking about all the fun you'll have once you win the Powerball. You also need to be engaged. As you make your plan for what it will be like when you have what you want, also think about what steps you can take to make that happen.

Again, this doesn't have to happen all at once, and the steps can be small. The important thing is to keep thinking about, and moving toward, what you want. And as you do this, you just won't have the time to waste energy on what you don't.

This card comes from Esther and Jerry Hicks' oracle deck Getting Into The Vortex. You can find out more on their website here: www.abraham-hickslawofattraction.com/lawofattractionstore/product/CRD-VORTEX.html

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